When it comes to my manuscript, I have extreme control issues. It can't survive or get better without me. Nobody can help, but me. I put my manuscript above the care & feeding of myself. This is no bueno. Eating is essential. And if you want people to like you, showering, is too.
Having a history with codependency, I can relate the condition to my writing.
Learning when to let it go... to beta readers, is crucial. So, if you're anything like me, this may help. I've come up with twelve steps to recovery.
The 12 Steps of Recovery for Manuscript Codependents
- Admit you’re powerless over the darned manuscript, and your writerly life has become unmanageable.
- Make the decision to turn over your manuscript to a few trusted beta readers.
- Beg, plead, or coerce them to read your manuscript.
- With the help of these brave beta readers, you may regain a shred of sanity.
- While waiting for betas to finish, do something completely different.
- Consider all ideas / suggestions from betas (They may see what you can’t or won't.).
- Make an honest, fearless list of what sucks about your manuscript.
- Admit to yourself and everyone around you what sucks about your manuscript.
- Make the decision to fix what sucks about your manuscript.
- Humbly thank everyone who pointed out your manuscript’s shortcomings.
- Through blood, sweat, and tears, rewrite that darned thing.
- After having a spiritual awakening with your revised manuscript, as a result of these steps, carry this message to other manuscript codependents, and help them see the light.
Chuck Wendig offers hilarious revision tips. Warning: He is prone to dropping the f-bomb.
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